Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak. She loves to blog about her writing journey and life in North Carolina— highlighting the wonderful people and places of her home state and military lifestyle.
Recently I reconnected with a friend who I worked with years ago. We met up at a local coffee shop, Jumping Java, to have tea, talk about life, and children’s books. She was interested in purchasing a copy of my children’s book, Mommy’s Big, Red Monster Truck, for a tiny tot in her life.
As it happens she published a children’s book several years ago as well— before I became a mom and was inspired to write my book. She brought along a copy of her book to pass on to me and my son to read.
The significance of her book and its message truly did not resonate in me until I opened its pages and realized how very much this book related to our life as a military family. And the impact it could make on other military families or any family missing a loved one who works away from home.
The book is titled Just Till Mommy Comes Home by Loriann Kinney. The story was inspired by her own experience of caring for her young granddaughter during her daughter’s deployment overseas.
Author of Just Till Mommy Comes Home Loriann Kinney Photo of Loriann’s daughter whom the book was based on
Just Till Mommy Comes Home describes the days leading up to her daughter’s deployment and the transition thereafter in helping her granddaughter cope with her mommy’s absence. It provides the reader sweet, relatable illustrations (by Lorraine Hardman) and text in helping teach children and adults healthy coping skills during times of change.
I cannot emphasize the importance of this book’s message enough and it should be on EVERY military family’s bookshelves!
The author of the book has worked in the mental health field (where we originally met) for many years and is currently the owner of Creative Play located in Raeford, NC which provides in-home therapy for children with disabilities.
Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak.
Here we are in the last week of summer. The last summer my son will be a seven-year-old as he approaches birthday number eight in September and will be starting school next week.
I am experiencing highs and lows. I would be lying if I said I was not eager to regain my daily freedom and that I do not enjoy structure and routine the school year brings to our home. Early bedtimes, early rising, and knowing my child is in good hands and learning all the things to prepare him for life.
But I see and hear him voicing insecurity and thoughts of the unknown.
Will his teacher be a good match for his wildly curious, easily bored, silly, and vocal personality?
Will he make new friends?
All the “what if’s” and “what nots” we have all experienced as children and in adulthood.
We are preparing to attend the back-to-school bash tomorrow night where he will find out who his second grade teacher will be and meet new classmates— and reconnect with the old friends and teachers from school. An exciting time of nervous butterflies that will couple with realizing it’s not all that scary…. I am reminding myself.
He’s growing up.
He’s got this.
He’s a good kid.
He’s a smart boy.
He’s friendly and outgoing.
He’s imaginative.
He’s funny.
He’s my awesome boy.
So if you are like me and worry over your children and want to watch them succeed and have a place in the world, set your mind at ease.
You’ve got this.
But while other parents are preparing their kids already with routines and early lights out, we will be enjoying the last moments of summer.
Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak.
My husband is a HUGE baseball enthusiast. He takes baseball very serious. He is THAT fan who is zoned in on the action intensely shouting and cheering for his team— sometimes a bit too loud and too enthusiastic for my liking. I’ll lend that to his Philadelphia rearing as he is a diehard Phillies fan who misses the action of his big city teams.
For me, baseball is more atmospheric— a place to gather with friends and enjoy the sights and sounds of summer while delighting in delicious ballpark food and refreshments, shopping for team merchandise, and social mingling.
I like the shine of the lights on the perfectly manicured field and the sound of the crack of the bat on a baseball— the conjuring of childhood memories watching my brother play ball, all the hoopla in the stands, the sports announcer’s corny jokes, and fun music soundbites to rile up fans.
So it was only fitting that in the town where Babe Ruth hit his very first homer (right here in Fayetteville, North Carolina) the city would bring a minor league baseball team to the heart of our downtown.
Fayetteville has partnered with the Houston Astros to bring a fabulous stadium and MILB team home to Hay Street that can satisfy both mine and my husband’s baseball park needs, wants, and tastes— the one and onlyFayetteville Woodpeckers!!!
Take that Phillies.
My husband has a new home team (but you will always be his favorite first love).
Segra Stadium has it ALL.
Tons of fun to be had by kids of all ages including a fun zone area for children, batting cages, Woodpeckers merchandise, tasty treats and ice cold beverages span the entire stadium.
Featured local North Carolina brews can be found for the beer lover as well.
Not to mention tons of casual, comfy seating options.
In addition, as a nod of respect for our military troops located here in the Sandhills, I was so impressed and moved to find this tribute to Prisoners of War and those who are Missing in Action:
There is no detail left undone.
I cannot wait to see how this stadium and baseball team continue to evolve— and the beneficial impacts of its presence on our beloved city.
Welcome Home, WOODPECKERS!
We are proud to have you!
For more information on how to purchase tickets, look here:
Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak.
The theme of the collaboration— 12 Unique Off The Beaten Path Destinations For Your Next Adventure.
My favorite “off the beaten path” destination instantly came to mind— The Inner Banks of the Pamlico River, North Carolina— my native Eastern North Carolina coastal home.
Sunset capture by my mother, Julia Austin Paul, at hers and my father’s home on the Pamlico River
Take a look at the blog post here of the twelve worldwide destinations featured:
Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak.
While North Carolina is enjoying a dip in sultry July temps, head out to the beautiful Cape Fear River Trail in Fayetteville, NC (conveniently located near I-95) to take in some fresh air and natural scenery.
My son and I, along with dear friends, hit the trail this morning and had a blast.
With the exception of a couple of minor meltdowns toward the end of our hike from tired little people— the affects of video game 🎮 detox setting in.
Poor Things. 😂
Overall, the hilly trail provides lots of outdoor fun, and challenging hiking and biking.
Not to mention the lovely scenery to include a waterfall!
Dragonflies, lizards, butterflies, caterpillars, and salamanders met us at each curve in the wood’s edge.
As well as a pretty pond decorated with seasonal blooming lily pads inhabited by birds, turtles, frogs, and all types of other wildlife.
CFRT is a great place to walk your dog!
Our canine companion for the day, Major, sniffed out all the sights and scenes 🐕.
We even got to meet an officer with Fayetteville Police Department 👮 monitoring the trail to ensure the public’s safety. Thanks #FayPD ❤️!
According to the Cape Fear River Trail Website, here are some things you should know before you hit the trail:
I will note you should probably bring along bottled water 💦, a small backpack and a cell phone in case of an emergency (and/or a camera to take pictures 📸).
CFRT will be expanding into Historic Downtown Fayetteville in the near future— and connect with Linear Park. This will be an exciting update highlighting the many charming and picturesque sights and scenes in Fayetteville.
Get outside and enjoy this FREE Fayetteville treasure.
Then, treat your sweaty self to a delicious burger and milkshake at Freddy’s across from the Jordan Soccer Complex entryway to the park off Ramsey and Tree Top Drive:
Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak.
Renaissance European Day Spa Staff with Owner Natalie Spencer
Fayetteville, North Carolina-
Despite devastation from a fire which caused Renaissance European Day Spa to close its doors for seven long months, Owner Natalie Spencer continues to keep a “bounce” in her step and attitude.
I recently sat down with Natalie to talk about the reopening of her spa after a fire occurred in October 2018 which caused the successful Fayetteville, North Carolina business to close due to necessary restorations.
Renaissance European Day Spa Owner Natalie Spencer
What struck me most about Natalie was her enthusiasm and optimism, the care and genuine concern of her employees as well as her customers; not to mention, the strong partnerships with area businesses she’s built, and the gratitude in her heart for those who helped lift her up during such a difficult time in life.
Natalie’s genuine appreciation of her community here in Fayetteville is infectious.
Listen to our conversation on Hodge Podge Podcast here:
I was thrilled when Natalie invited me to visit the recently reopened spa to try out some of the new as well as tried and true services the spa offers.
Natalie graciously set me up for a full day of pampering which was just what this lady needed in her life.
Thanks, Natalie. 😊
It’s not everyday I get to submerge myself in total pampering and relaxation.
My personal spa experience was fantastic and I can’t wait to tell you all about it.
First, I was given the Mellow Moonchild CBD Body Nourishment (skin polish) part of the spa’s new Total Swellness services followed by a delicious steam bath, shower and massage that left my skin quenched and super soft.
Kim, the fabulous aesthetician who graced me with her healing hands, has been employed with Renaissance European Day Spa for thirteen years. She educated me on Farm Fresh products out of Texas to include the Mellow Moon Dip Body Mousse and Muscadine Moonshine Body Scrub. The smell of these products was heavenly— I was transported back to my childhood plucking grapes off my grandparents’ muscadine grapevines.
Next up was a classic Swedish Massage provided by Melissa, an extremely talented massage therapist who worked out my sore neck and shoulder muscles as well as stubborn hip and sciatic pain. The massage room was so relaxing thanks to a very comfortable massage table, soft linens, dreamy lighting and mesmerizing meditation music. I was able to easily let go of all my cares and concerns.
The hot towels placed on my tired muscles following the massage was transcendent. I will note the upper neck massage at the base of my skull cap was wonderful. I could feel the tension and stress melt away. I would recommend this massage by Melissa for anyone under a great deal of stress or anyone suffering migraine headaches.
One client I met said she’d waited seven months to receive a massage from Melissa since the spa closed last October. It was worth the wait to receive impeccable services. I have to agree with her 💯.
While enjoying the beautiful upstairs lobby area and sipping a delicious smoothie, I talked with a customer who was awaiting services named Valerie Walker. Valerie is a Fitness Instructor and Physical Trainer with Cape Fear Valley Healthplex, Minister at Rivers of Life Church, and primary caregiver for her elderly mother who suffers from Alzheimer’s Disease. Valerie treated herself to a birthday Swedish Massage and Facial. She said she wanted to take care of herself on her birthday.
“We put all these expectations on ourselves— our bodies, and we need to treat it (our bodies) from time to time. We need to reward it for all the hard work we put it through,” Valerie expressed to me. I thought this such a poignant message and reminder for us all.
Valerie Walker, REDS Customer awaiting spa services on her birthday
Following the Swedish massage, I was treated to a new facial service offered by REDS: Hyperbaric Oxygen Facial, a noninvasive facial minus burning acids or painful injections. This was quite a unique experience. Intraceuticals developed serums that, when administered in conjunction with oxygen, visibly plump and hydrate skin to reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. The facial left me fresh faced which helped to reduce redness and some stubborn acne brought on recently due to travel and stress.
Hope Viega, Fayetteville resident and loyal customer of REDS receiving a spa pedicure
Following my facial, the lovely Jozette, nail guru at REDS, provided me some much needed toe and foot indulgence via the Happy Camper Pedicure. My heels haven’t been that “happy” in a longtime!
The Farm Fresh Peet Moss Masque and Light as Air Body Mouse and Hemp Oil Lotion left my toes twinkling. I chose a super fun blue color from the OPI collection that reminded me of the turquoise shores of The Crystal Coast on North Carolina’s Southern Outer Banks.
Last— but definitely not least— was time for some hair love by Haley, REDS Stylist Diva, who saved my dull locks with a fabulous shampoo and scalp massage followed by a trim and texturized cut.
The Brazilian Blowout Smoothing Serum Haley used on my hair is awesome and beats the July North Carolina humidity. This smoothing serum only available during hair service at REDS, left my hair tame and lustrous for days following my appointment.
I encourage everyone to visit Renaissance not only for stellar spa pampering, but also to support a locally owned and operated business that truly cares for the people of its community.
Beginning this August, Renaissance will begin a brand new program called REDS Gives Back. The program will support a different local charity each month by either raising monies to donate to the charity, collecting donated goods and/or through volunteerism. Clients of the spa can help as well.
Natalie expressed it was extremely important more than ever for the spa to support its community following the outpouring of support they received in the past months following the fire.
Also, military members need to take advantage of the 15% off discount on spa services in July before offers end.
The deals and kindness do not stop there… the spa is also offering some major promotions in August for teachers to help them get ready to return to school relaxed and looking fabulous!
Watch here for more information:
For more information on how to contact the spa, look here:
You can check out the list of spa services on the website here:
Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak.
Alison Paul Klakowicz is an Eastern North Carolina native, children’s book author, blogger, podcaster and creative writer. She is a military spouse who resides in Fayetteville, NC with her husband, Adam, and son, Mak.
Segra Stadium, Fayetteville, North Carolina: 
I encourage everyone to visit Renaissance not only for stellar spa pampering, but also to support a locally owned and operated business that truly cares for the people of its community.
